bookishboi replied to your post: i am so good at being lonely that it scares me…
Will you come visit us here in MN?We can make you learn how not to be lonely
one day i’m going to visit all you beautiful QTPOC in MN. i’m serious.
i am so good at being lonely that it scares me sometimes
the sweetest thing right now is lying in the sun and thinking about my boo.
black hair on black ties on black shirts on black on black
strugglingtobeheard replied to your post: i just wanna love and beat level 29 of candy crush…
Lol you need to message me when you need extra lives Im stuck on level 49 and will give to a ticket to the next stage when the time comes :)
yaaaaay! thank you. i’m rooting for you. you can beat level 49. <3
i just wanna love and beat level 29 of candy crush saga
13/20 things out of my to do list done today and i am settled in bed for the night. i’ve reached my limit and i’m happy with what i was able to accomplish.
i just wanna say that it’s been quite the journey these past few weeks being hella public and real about my chronic back pain and general lack of energy. and it’s been really interesting to hear some of the responses that range from really supportive and loving to uncertainty around how to interact with me. there have been remarks that have been made that - while good intentioned - come across as dismissive.
there is an urgency for me to “get over” whatever it is that i am experiencing when the reality is that it has taken me years to openly acknowledge that i experience physical pain that makes the daily struggle a really big fucking struggle. and i want to affirm that the ways we internalize ableism and capitalism in order to survive and in order to produce and “perform” does not negate any expression of disdain, discomfort, pain, sadness, etc around trauma and our physical well being.
and then there is also silence. because what do we do when the people who we assume are always on top of it are “suddenly” no longer on top of it?
i need us to be uncomfortable together so we can learn together. so we can be better people with each other. so we can actually listen to one another’s needs. so we can create space to breathe and pause and fill ourselves with the love and the community before we push each other to keep moving. there is always more work to be done and our mental and physical health is just as precious as our visions for justice and liberation.
slay-z replied to your post: 20 things on my to do list, about 3 of those…
proud of you, too!
20 things on my to do list, about 3 of those things done.
proud of me, actually.
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seppin replied to your post: okay, found a floral cane and got mad excited so…
hope it helps! good vibes ~
navigatethestream replied to your post: okay, found a floral cane and got mad excited so…
style and profile loan!
okay, found a floral cane and got mad excited
so now i guess i have a floral cane coming in the mail.
i hope this works out!
la-hija-del-quinto-sol replied to your post: i never imagined myself getting excited about…
would you mind sharing some of those links with me?
yes, i can definitely send you those links. wanted to drop you a line first. i’m at work right now so i can’t be on my technology for too long. but yes, i’ll share those with you. will you leave a message in my inbox?
southernrevolutionary replied to your post: i never imagined myself getting excited about…
you could hide a hushpuppy dispenser in it!