hello friends -
the past year has been an interesting journey with tumblr and social media. after a relationship ended and i moved back to the south, i found that a lot of my “friendships” and “relationships” with people were fragile enough that some folks were not interested in me because i was no longer in a certain place or certain relationship. i have felt judgment and the silence that resulted from it as well as folks taking sides. that’s hurt a lot and has also made it a little difficult for me to be present on tumblr and center my writing and other things that help me cope with the world.
i know that i’ve also been bad at keeping in touch with folks and being a friend.
i am considering making a side blog to this one in hopes of centering my writing again and re/building the relationships that i need with other qtpoc.
please let me know and reach out to me (you can respond to this post or send me a message) if you would be interested in being connected through a side blog that i hope will again be vulnerable and intimate and present as this blog was before. i might reach out to some of y’all, too!!