i feel like i used to have such creative hair. i’m at such a standstill right now and it’s really upsetting me because i could just keep shaving off all of my hair but i actually *want* long hair right now, the in between is just very blech.
but i have this strip in the back i’m sure i’m gonna get rid of. like it’s got to go because i look like a douchebag.
i’m really, genuinely switchy when it comes to sex and i think i’m really good at being told what to do and initiating when i want to/am asked to. but i still identify strongly with being a bottom because it’s important for me not to feel bad about wanting to be submissive - especially when i have a lot of trauma around being forced into submission.
i need to realistically wear my glasses at all hours when i’m awake but i hate wearing my glasses when i’m eating, just sitting in my room or lounging around the house unless i’m watching t.v but then i can’t see shit and it annoys me that i have to wear these glasses but i don’t want to do contact lenses because i’m not responsible enough for that shit. oh well.
hey y’all! we are a little under $300 away from our goal.
we are moving into our new home on the evening of the 14th and may not have enough money to turn on electricity or water at our new place because of bad credit history and outrageous security deposit requirements.
please donate if you are able and share this fundraising link. every $ counts at this point.
there are just people in my life who make me giddy and make me giddy even after months of not talking to or seeing each other. the giddiness isn’t even based in romantic or sexual attraction - they’re just really awesome and i’m grateful to know how they’re doing.
this is really upsetting & triggering. sexualizing twins is obviously not okay (i know the people in the photos aren’t actually twins). please tag for #incest for this suggesting this shit.
thanks for letting me know. i’m sorry that i made that post and it was triggering to you. i’m going to delete it, though, instead of tagging it because incest is also a triggering topic for me and if that’s one of the ways the post is being taken i’d rather just remove it for my own sake and others who come across it who may not feel comfortable to let me know that it triggered them.
getting seriously tired of non-profits co-opting unaffiliated grassroots organizing efforts.
to be clear, this is what co-option looks like:
putting your logo and brand onto rhetoric and statements created by grassroots organizers
seeking to take control of all media and communications
funneling all your potential base contacts through your website
non-profits can leverage support to grass roots organizing efforts by offering funding, hosting a petition site, sharing media and communications that comes from the organizers, offering resources such as media 101, etc.
i have essentially spent my entire life annoyed by how idealized the west coast has been so i have no firm understanding of the geography of the west coast outside of naming seattle, portland and the entire state of california.
i will be presenting a day long workshop on topics of disability justice, calling in and nuances of liberation at scripps college next week from 10am-5pm. the event is open to the public, please let me know if you’d be interested in coming and i can forward you the info.
considering that there are already around 60 ppl who have rsvped “yes” to attending, please don’t reblog this! i want folks to know about this event (wheelchair accessible, scent free, qpoc ASL interpreters) and also want to respect my own capacity!