fabianromero:

fabianromero:

okay so Texta introduced me to candy crush on facebook and it is so addicting! it starts out innocently enough then boom you wanna play and play but you gotta either ask your friends for lives or wait like 30 minutes to play again OR you can buy lives! you also have the option to buy moves and special deals to help you score more….. this game is a lot like life because the people who can afford to buy that shit will get way ahead way quick because waiting for community to come and help sometimes takes a little longer. 

it should be called privilege crush or something…. just kidding. 

there’s also a migration piece in here. when you’re trying to get to level 20 you have to get 3 of your friends to get you a ticket so you get hop on a boat and cross the river to get to level 20.

now just imagine if you can’t get 3 sponsors. you could buy 3 sponsors but imagine if you don’t have the money. 

let’s adapt this for anti oppression game workshops.

i had too much faith that fried pickles at an airport would be any good. 

i think i can only consider these warm pickles with crust on them.

y’all i’ve been at this airport for almost 8 hours

i’m starting to get really impatient 

!!!!

shit’s too complex sometimes for us to deny each other and ourselves run on sentences.

i’ve decided that it’s best for me not to give relationship advice because the drama and stress is draining. so when folks who i care about are coming to me with relationship shit i’m going to turn it into an anti-oppression 101 mini session applicable to that situation and encourage personal responsibility to handle their shit (as in how do our privileges + oppressions affect this situation and knowing that our romantic/intimate relationships are not immune from these things how can our love for one another be a vehicle for change?), rooted and coming from a place of love, of course + always. 

and i mean of course there are gonna be times where i’m going to refuse offering any “advice” at all but i really feel better about framing it differently. 

~*healthy radical sustainable accountable love*~

skyping with Fabian and playing candy crush now i’m addicted

fabianromero:

[two images, one of a dog with it’s eyes closed and its tongue hanging out and one of a cat with its mouth half way open and half closed eyes. the words “Kiss Me” are written above the dog.]

i want everyone to take note that Fabian tagged this with “tranqualizer” and “brown boi love” 

because these animals are me.

i sat down on the ground next to an outlet and someone came by and jacked it from me.

omg!!!! 

i almost forgot until i started looking through my luggage. one of the honorees at GLSEN’s respect awards yesterday was the Farrington High School GSA from Kalihi, Honolulu, HI. the students came over and greeted some of us and then lei’d us! i almost cried. 

setfabulazerstomaximumcaptain replied to your post: Ive been MIA, busy as shit, miss the Internet, so…

Consensual hugs and energy coming your way love!,

nueva-bordena replied to your post: Ive been MIA, busy as shit, miss the Internet, so…

Take car of yourself, we miss you, but we can wait. <3 <3 <3

<3 <3 <3 <3

i love y’all!!!

well i guess i don’t have to work because my airplane broke

guess I should board my flight but my back hurts too much to get up

I’ve been MIA, busy as shit, miss the Internet, so tired but I’m going home and the first thing in doing is work. boom.

healing and radical things to do: be gender ambiguous/gender non conforming/gender confrontational/ queer and vulnerable as shit and leave voicemails for your boo before you travel. say I love you a lot, say I miss you a lot. do it cuz it’s worth it and you mean it and it makes everyone really uncomfortable when qpoc love in public.